“If he had done something about it he would probably be here today,” she said.
“He went to the doctors who sent him for prostate blood tests which showed high levels but he just carried on working seven days a week and it wasn’t followed up.
“He didn’t hear anything through the pandemic and it got to the point where he couldn’t go to the toilet without a catheter and he must have had other symptoms.
“By the time he went to the doctors it was stage four cancer and had spread to his bones. He was working until nine months before he passed away.”
Jayne, who is now 56 and works for Shropshire Council raising awareness about services available for carers, has had her own diagnosis.
She had a melanoma on her leg but had assurances from the GP – however 12 months later it was changing and she was scratching at it.
“It didn’t look like the images you see of cancerous moles,” she said.
“One day it started bleeding in the shower so I went back to the GP, referred to see a consultant, then had a biopsy. I didn’t hear anything for six months and it became raised and itchy.
“I chased it and had another biopsy within two weeks then had an operation, they took a chunk out of my leg and found that all of the surrounding tissue was healthy – I was lucky really, I could have left it longer.”
When she was 52 Jayne was called for her first mammogram – she got called back about a concern on the same side of her body as the operations she’d had on her leg.
They discovered invasive ductal carcinoma (IDC) cancer – abnormal cells growing in the lining of the milk ducts which change and invade breast tissue – in the early stages.
She had to have 12 biopsies until doctors were sure they had pinpointed it all – and just a few weeks later another scan led to a lumpectomy and 15 rounds of radiotherapy.
She said: “It was very early but if I hadn’t done anything about it it would have been full blown.
“Everyone at the Royal Shrewsbury Hospital was lovely, I really felt like I knew what was going on, everyone was very kind and caring.
“I hear people saying they won’t go for a mammogram or smear test and I just think what are they doing, people don’t know what’s there and going on in their bodies.”
Jayne decided to use her experiences to help others and signed up to become a Lingen Davies Cancer Champion.
She first heard about the role through her job and now proudly has the logo on her email signature.
“When I saw the Cancer Champion role advertised I felt I needed to help get the word out there,” she said.
“I just chat to people at work about it and ask people if they check their bodies, do their friends, and if not, why not.
“I share the opportunity with people, it’s just day to day conversations, and if I see an opportunity I use it.”
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